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writes:Dear readers I'm am 19 years of age And I was just wondering how a man knows when he discovers the "type" of girls he is interested in. A lot of friends say that I like blondes and sure I have dated a few blonde girls but the only proper relationship I had was with a brunette, I was thinking that maybe that brunettes are my type and that blondes are maybe some unconscious desire.Thanks for reading sorry if this is perhaps not info Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 My type:
breathing
kind
funny
generous
smart
tolerant
I've been married 4 times let's see:
#1. dark hair dark eyes about 5'6" no facial hair older than me
#2. what's left of his dark hair was going gray, blue eyes, about 5'8" no facial hair older than me
#3 6'4" balding, very long hair (till he cut it about 3 years into the marriage) light brown hair, blue eyes facial hair younger than me
#4 5'7" light brown almost blonde very short military style cut, blue eyes younger than me.
so I think my type is male with blue eyes right?
your type is whomever you find attractive.
My husband's type: youngish (around 25-30 since he's 39) dark skin, long black straight hair. big boobs and Asian.
Me: OLD (52) I was a redhead with curly hair when we met and started dating, I'm NOT Asian nor are my boobs spectacular...
so guess what, TYPE means NOTHING.
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male
reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 Experience man. Ive found I prefer short petite busty women I dont care about color or ethnicity. I'm a big guy, the dominant type and in the bedroom that is my desire. Not to mention these women like it n feel well taken care of n protected.
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female
reader, mrswaldhauser +, writes (15 January 2013):
 I don't believe in people preferring "types" at all. I think that men and women only put people into type categories based on what is most visually appealing to them in a sexual sense. When you fall in love thats completely different. You may find that as a man for example you could grow up always being attracted to tall, slim blonde women but when you have grown up and you fall in love it may be with a short brunette or red head! You just don't know. It's the person you fall in love with and their physical attributes may become more attractive to you because of the person themselves. I myself growing up was repulsed by men with any facial hair or hairy chests! I thought it was horrible and always much preferred men who were unshaven but as I grew up I met my husband who has a very hairy chest and a goatee! Which just goes to show you don't always fall in love with you "type" as you put it and I fancy my husband more than I've ever fancied anyone. It's the person you find attractive.
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reader, Abella +, writes (15 January 2013):
 Hi
If you possibly can, try not to limit yourself to physical attributes like hair color. Most girls like to ring the changes, when it suits them.
Sure you will be physically attracted to girls who push all your buttons. That's physical attraction and crushes and lust all rolled into one.
But within those 'hot' girls you feel drawn to you will discover that some are kind and fun and delightful and often very
Intelligent - whatever their hair color
And better still they can she hold a conversation? Life could get very boring with a vacuous partner who prefers to giggle
So you've found the kind, fun, delightful, AND hot girl.
Now before you start focusing on her hair color I suggest you focus on the most important thing, which is CHARACTER.
How honorable is she? Can you always trust her word? Is she open and honest with you? Does she treat you with respect? Does she LISTEN to you without interrupting? Can she regularly stay near to sober when those around her are clearly not sober? Is she respectful towards her family and friends?
Get the character traits right and no matter what color her hair, you will find her a pleasure.
Of course I'm not expecting you to give up being attracted to a really hot girl. That's normal at your age, gee any age.
But don't put up with nasty character traits that make life a misery, all because she's hot. Or blonde. Or
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