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How do you stimulate yourself?

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Question - (24 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Girls help me please. Okay this is gonna sound so dumb but I don't know how to masturbate. Well I know you can finger yourself. If you do that and people check your vagina will it look like you've had sex??

I want to masturbate 'cause it's normal and even my mom thinks I should. Besides fingering how do you masturbate if you're a girl??

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHi sweetness,

Here's a great website dedicated to ALL THINGS female masturbation. It has other girls your age getting advice on how to go about stimulating yourself.

http://www.clitical.com

I think you'll love it! I hope it helps!

xxIndia

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007):

Hi

I'm 14 and have started thinking about that in the last few months. But I could never talk to anybody about that, especially my mum!

You should ask your mum to buy you a vibrator, I don't have one but they apparently feel amazing.

At the moment, I have a massager with heat and vibrating - and I rub that against me. Try spelling the alphabet on you, so that you concentrate in more than one area.

The light feeling of achiness in the lower back and dizziness is really nice.

You can also use the shower head, and put the running water over your "area". Or the spa or jacuzzi.

A further way is to get a soft toy or something, and hump it. By that I mean sitting on the floor in your underwear or naked with it in between your legs and moving up and down and rubbing it. Dont forget to wash it though!

Some girls like to look in the mirror, as it feels good. D

You can use music too, to get you "In the mood". Personally, I find Elliot Minors record 'Jessica' quite a turn on.

Were still young right? Its about experimenting .. Just a journey and seeing what feels good. So, try a bit of everything and practise whatever makes you feel good.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

penta agony auntOddly enough, eHow.com has an answer to this question:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2058284_masturbate.html

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