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*majayne
writes: How does one make a long distance relationship in the least bit successful? or even slightly functional? The reason i ask is that i'm in one...and to be honest i kind of want to rip his head off with my bare teeth.
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (31 January 2009):
Emajayne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all ur great advise!! :) Much appreciated.
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reader, unique-angel +, writes (31 January 2009):
omg i get what u mean. my bloke has just gone 2 germany and its only been 2days but i keep wishin he would come online!!
best thing to do which is relaly hard is to keep occupied but be there for him.
and valentines is soon, to keep things spicy goin to send him saucy pics and videos..make him want u jst as much as before lol
gd luck! xx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 January 2009):
HAHA, okay you sound like you're in a rough situation over there. Thank the Lord he lives long distance or he'd be running around headless and you would have blood on your teeth! Okay, enough with the jokes...
LDR's are so freakin' hard. It's a lot easier if you have access to visit each other and you have similar mindsets - neither of you need to have a significant other around to feel happy. You need to really make the effort to keep things romantic (i.e. writing each other letters through the mail, being creative about expressing your love and keeping things spicy).
It's totally cool if you're just not into long distance relationships, and lets face it - if you want to rip his head off, you may just not be into the LDR thing. Maybe take a break from him and find someone a little more local or accessible!
Good luck!
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