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*lliebellie
writes:hiya!i was just wondering:how do you know if you are really in love?cus the guy im with well i dunno if i love him. ive been with him for about 6 months. i dont really feel i have opened up but i want to know if theres a point in a relationship when you just know, that you love a person.and could one of us love each other before the other? is that possible?lolelliexxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): According to http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/499167/how_do_you_know_when_you_are_in_love.html
These define when you are in love. Sound familiar?
When you start being nice to people, that's love.
Love is when you can give up your life for someone you love.
Love is when you can do anything to prove your love and to justify it.
When you think all day, just nothing! Sweet nothings!
Love is when you sing songs, you have never heard!
When you talk about that person in every opportunity you get.
When you want to prove the person as smart, intelligent, beautiful, in short everything that is superlative!
You are in love, when you get disciplined about everything
You are in love when you want to help everyone
When you are in love, you care for that person a lot.
You want to be with that person all the time.
You think of your future with that person in it. You visualize all major events in life with that person by your side.
In short everything is nice and perfect and good. It was all you could ask for. And you are suddenly the happiest person in the world, until.....until the time comes when there are some other symptoms of love
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): hi uhm love is when you feel like you hate him because he's not beside you, hating because you want him to love you back, trade your gadgets even your n95 just to have him...and last but not the least, love feels good and annoying...annoying because your confused...like you to be glued 4 ever
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (8 January 2008):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi guys!
thanks so much
so even a little gesture can make you aware? never knew that
thanks guys
luv u all
lol
ellie
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Ah, love. All I can say is that you know what it is when you experience it. You feel like you would move across the country to be with this person... miss him when he's gone, want to be with him every second, want to tell him everything, feel comfortable 100%... I first realized I'd found love when I was laying on the couch with my boyfriend. He had his arm around me, and I knew that there was nothing that could make that moment more perfect.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 January 2008):
 HI Elliebellie,
I guess the time it takes people to fall in love varies from couple to couple. Somepeople claim to have fallen in love straight away, while others have fallen in love after years. I think you know you are in love by the way you feel inside, that warm glow that you get that eminates from within. You would do absolutely anything for that person, and they are on your mind from the moment you awake, to the moment your head hits the pillow at night. The world seems a more beautiful place when you are in love, and you notice things you might otherwise have taken for granted. Such as the smell of cut grass on a spring afternoon, the sound of birds tweeting in the trees, the way the sun shines on sea water a creates a thousand sparkles, and how bright the stars glow on a moonlit night. What a marvelous joy it is to be in love, some people spend their whole lives looking for it and still never find true love. If you think you have found love grab it with both hand and never look back.
I wish you all the best x
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reader, AJ jess ^..^ +, writes (7 January 2008):
 Love is different for everyone, does anyone actually know what love is, i think that love is where you can tell your partner anything, feel peaceful with them, respect for them, care for them and would do anything to keep them happy.
Love happens at different times during a relationship and i suggest that you talk about your feelings with this guy if you want it to be a long term relationship xox auntie jess
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