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writes:I’m almost 25 and yet to really date anyone. I live very strick and traditional asian family. Plus til recently I’ve never really always the enjoy the single life. I notice when im out the pub with best friends, to listen to the local band, somehow unintentionally check out one of the bartenders..There seem to be fair few catch at the local pub that me and my best mate have been regulars for over a year now. We get know half staff and joke around with them even with the manger that they even call us trouble why I don’t know why for all we order is food n coffee. I’ve been joking flirting with bartenders ever since I was 18. Half time it just bit of playfulness, that as far it goes. I even befriend few. They keep telling don’t go out with bartenders. One even told me he, doesn’t take the girls at club serious for he think most of them are drunk when they pass their numbers to him he just toss it in bin at end of the night. Half time their too busy to even chat to get to know the girl. Over the year i met lot bartender whom doesnt mind a chat here n there when thing are quite. Just incase one does strike my fancy how do get them to take the next step after the joke flirts.How to let the bartender know that im interested please make a proper move.
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reader, Fender +, writes (10 December 2012):
Fender is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really don't understand why? I've always been highly attracted to bartenders and band members. I think I even was thinking it as a career option once. Add skills, charm n the slight cockiness cheekiness combo can b quite seductive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): I know couples where one of them worked as a bartender, and now they are married.
I have no advice for you because I really don't know how to get a guyninterested if he is not , but my question is, why bartender? Why to pick someone who is exposed more than any other proffesion to a bunch of beatifull drunk women?
Also bartenders tend to be "nice" because it's a part of their job. "nice" = nice tips.
A bartender would be' the last on my list , but of course it's your own taste.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 December 2012):
 I worked as a bartender for 4 years. I got hit on A LOT and gave as good as anyone else, but NEVER went on a single date with anyone I served. Never went home with anyone either.
As a bartender it's your job to serve drinks and be charming. Remember people's favorite drink, their name and so forth.
We had a JAR where we stuck in phone numbers and yea, it got emptied every night - right in the trash.
Also we had 2 male bartenders and they slept with any and every girl they could, couple of the females did to.
I would not ask a bartender out while he i at work. Now if you run into him out side work or HE asks you, then maybe, but you still don't know if he is just looking for a 1 night stand.
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