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*linaC
writes:I love a man who have 31 years old,I only have 20.We meet in a mmo game and I begine to love him.I love him more than my life.At begine was wonderfull,he show he's love.he bip me when I was offline,we stay alot at time together,he was jelous but he was lovely,he wanted to be with me.I felt special,loved,but now he's change and he dont admit it.Some times he go diner and tell me to wait him 10 mins but he stay 2-3 hours,he ignore me almost all day.He go travel without telling me only when he almost get there.He's not the man I meet,he's so change and he dont admit it.I never thought I love someone like him.The quest is why?I give him all,but why he hurt me now?I'm just a game for him? Reply to this Question
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reader, alinaC +, writes (10 December 2012):
alinaC is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThx for ur answer to both of u,I really apreciate it
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): Sweetie he is doing this because he honestly don't think you know an.better yet. You're only twenty. He is 11 years older than you. He is taking advantage of your lack of knowledge of love and relationships. He does cruel stuff to you and expect you to take it. You don't have to take that.I would chalk this up as a learning experience and dump this loser. You will learn how to weed the good ones from the bad. You will get over him. Best of luck to you!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 December 2012):
 The question is not WHY is he doing this, the question is... WHY are you letting him?
Ok, I get it he was nice when you first started to chat, but then he turned indifferent and ignoring you - YET you are still there at his beck and call?
Secondly, what you feel is NOT love. It's infatuation. YOU only know what he has let you "see" through the chats. Who knows he might have a GF/wife.
People in mmo's are like anyone else on the Internet - some are not 100% honest about who they are, they like to play games within a game.
He liked having the power over you, he liked the idea of this "fantasy" girl (you & your mmo character) who looked up to him and adored him. But then he got tired of having to put in an effort. He was having fun, you took it serious.
Put him on ignore or take a break from the game, get out in the REAL world and spend time with family and friends. Leave him behind in the game.
I'm sorry you got your feelings hurt. I would ABSOLUTELY back 100% away from this guy and remove him from my life.
Never let a guy treat you like a door mat, because after a while you will ACT like one.
Chin up honey. Live life.
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