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writes: i have not been in a relationship for over three years and have been celibate ever since apart from masturbation. i have had many opportunities but am to afraid as i have not got the courage as i suffer from premature ejaculation. all journals i have read about the squeeze method or johson methods have failed. is there any medical treatments out there which do work? it really is getting to me as i do not have the courage and would hate to disappoint any women in that department. yours tickety boo.
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (10 August 2006):
 Ideally, it would be better to develop a relationship with your partner that is not just based on sex. That way you have the caring and desire first so that it comes to the point where there is support instead of just expectation. This can be part of a deepening of the relationship so that when you do attempt sex and cum too soon, your partner will be there to try again next time and not be judgemental.
As for GPs, you may be lucky and have a good one, but in my experience, if they cannot reach for a prescription pad they are lost. Really, there is not a quick fix or a quick answer, but a question of practice makes perfect, but with the same partner who is keen to be part of the discovery process. I think you will find that once you get familiar with the same partner, things will settle down and you won't be in so much of a hurry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): I have to agree with male reader.
You can infact teach yourself endurance; it will take a caring and supportive partner.
Have you discussed this with your family doctor? I think that is a perfect place to go for advice. Your doctor will know how to address your concern and believe it or not; knows and has dealt with this issue before.
Don't be shy or embarassed.
Good Luck.
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reader, unclerich +, writes (10 August 2006):
u worry to much about it!!!i've suffered from i had a loving partner who was really supportive and helped me through it.try and avoid one nigt stands it creates a lot of pressure on performing.do u last longer the second time round?if so just have alot of foreplay then wait for the second go so to speak.
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