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writes: There is a girl i know that I have found attractive for a long time even while i fancied another girl. Anyway even though we haven't spoken that often she has approached me several times when i looked down and helped me cheer up. Soon enough i couldn't get her out of my mind but when some of my friends found out they said to just move on because she was out of my league.That was about a year and a half ago now and I am now confident and happy with myself and I would like to try and get this girl to go out with me even though she has left school. I have her number but i heard she has a boyfriend but he doesn't sound like hes a nice guy and I wish i could make her see how i feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): I wholeheartidly agree with Irish on this one.
You are right in feeling grateful to this considerate and compassionate young woman for being there to lift you up when you needed it the most.
Congratulations on having renewed self confidence in yourself and in life.
I think that it is nice of you to have concerns for someone you know to be a good and sweet person but I think you should wait and see for yourself if these "stories" are true or not before you think you should intervene.
I also agree that biding your time when said young woman is no longer commited would be good for everyone involved.
Be a friend. And enjoy life as it comes.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006): I wouldn't state she's "out of your league" but I will say "she's out of your reach". She's got a bf, dear. You don't disrespect a person's life and love relationship and simply barge into their life and expect her to be grateful because you heard through the grapevine, this guy is not nice. You don't really know that for sure. What if what you heard is all BS? What if, irregardless of this guy's shortcomings, she's loves him? I would wait until she's a free agent, then make your move. And even then, there's no guarantees. In the meantime, I think you should focus on your continued recovery, to attaining further happiness and confidence with yourself. Good for you. So now-- get out there and date, enjoy life and have fun.
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reader, unclerich +, writes (10 August 2006):
just be her friend get to know her better then see how things progress
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