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writes:how do people deal with turning 30. don't say its just a number becasue it's not .any techniques at all.because i am turning 30 i never had a boyfreind i didn't even get my first kiss sad i know life is very hard for me and still is.what do i do.i can't cope with all my bad luck and the all the guys who rejected now its has to a head.what do i do?HELP .proper answers according to question and no smart remarks by guys.30 is old its is to some one who is 27,28,29,life has being very rough on me .nothing but diasspoiments and rejection now i am all alone.with nothing to look forward to, only getting old. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE THEN!you don't need to COPE with turning 30...bullshit.and your right 30 to you will always be old...with your mindset...life is hard sometimes...and it will get even harder for you ,if you think you have nothing to look forward to at 30.Some people your age are dying of cancer and have a few months left , they have nothing to look forward to...so stop feeling sorry for yourself and kick your own arse into living your life...so what! you have been rejected so have all of us at some point. You haven't kissed yet.. well go OUT AND KISS STOP WAITING ON YOUR ARSE AND GO OUT AND START LIVING...if you think you are old ...I'm not surprised you have not kissed..get young in your mind ...the wrinkles will take care of themselves and give you character. Look lived in ...have experiences in this rich life ..its their if you go and make it happen. Do something that makes you feel good...fly...sail...get a make over and if you look done-over at the end it dint matter you have inner character to carry you to all those special men waiting to kiss you. I know i am been hard with you, sometimes it helps. Your asking for advice but telling us what we are allowed to say...does not work like that..you ask we tell the truth in our eyes like it or not.via con dios.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Here is the coping technique:
You need to make your life more exciting. NO one gets more amped about anything just sitting around in stewing in it. Break up with a guy? Don't just sit at home moping about it, go out with your friends and forget it. You won't feel good about turning thirty unless you give yourself something to look forward to or to accomplish. Join a belly dancing class or volunteer. Anything to get you outside and enjoying your life which has barely begun. You are now in your Dirty Thirties, which according to Cosmo is the best time of life.
You will look forward to NOTHING if you give yourself nothing to look forward to. Nobody else can make you feel better about yourself and life, only YOU. So if you make some changes, changes in your thinking (every time you say "I hate 30", you have to make it up by saying "I am Dirty Thirty, baby!! I am amazing!!"), changes in your lifestyle.
There is no other way to cope. You need to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): all the answers are not helping coping techniques is what i want .
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Simple, it ain't 40. Now dealing with turning 40, that is the big one :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): Sweetie turning 30 isnt a big thing, i had my 30th last year and like yourself i worried about it. I know you may feel you have nothing to look forward to but who knows what lies around the corner in your life? Put yourself in situations where you will meet people, hold your chin up and make something for urself. Only you can change your life.Good luck xxx
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