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writes:I have been married for a little over 18 years and my has suddenly started sleeping on the couch in the livingroom. I have found porno materials downstairs and have thrown them away in front of him and I have found XXX rated pay per view movies recorded in the livingroom where he has been sleeping. We have not had sex nor has he touched or showed any interest in me in almost 5 months. I asked him if there is someone else and he replies with "I don't like women". I know very well that he's been watching these movies after he gets home from his new 2nd shift job and he never enters the bedroom at night. I feel so lonely and helpless. On the weekends he talks to me a little but usually does nothing to help around the house and lays around on the couch for hours. I desperately want to be held and loved and he has made no effort to touch me. What do I do? What do I say? Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): Hello there. I did the same thing to my wife. It really had nothing to do with her. It was my own fault. I guess I was in my mid life crisis. I felt like I was missing something and I was wondering "what if this or that" I guess. My wife was always very jealous of me. I could have another woman in ten minutes if I really wanted too. But really all I wanted was just a little freedom. Not for sex with someone else or another woman. I just needed her to understand that just because I'm not with her 24/7 that doesn't mean I don't love her. We just had our 20th anniversary yesterday. I love her with all my heart and soul. You guys seriously need to seek counciling. Don't waste your life with someone that won't meet you in the middle. I admit that I'm not the perfect husband and she's not the perfect wife. Nobody is perfect. But we stick it out TOGETHER that's what it's all about. Good luck.
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