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*adstrangelilgirl
writes:Hi I'm 14, and I had sex about a week ago and I'm wondering if I should tell my mom and how do I tell my doctor that I'm no longer a virgin if my mom's always there? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danicali +, writes (24 July 2007):
 You should tell your mom that you are old enough to go in the doctors office by yourself.Then tell your doctor.But if you continue beihg sexually active then you should plan on telling her...when the time is right!OKAY.hope i helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): The first part of the question is based on the kind of relationship you have with your mom. To answer the second part of your question you can't. You are a minor anything you tell the doctor they will tell your mom. For example when I was in high school I went to my doctor to have a physical done so that I could play sports. They took a urine sample. When they tested it they found a small about of blood. Instead of asking me the doctor went out into the waiting room and asked my mom if I was begining or ending my period. My mom and I aren't that close so she didn't know. I was embarresed and angry when I found out that the doctor asked her and not me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Well the only thing i can tell you is to have confidence in your self and then when you finally get the confidence tell them both that you are not a virgin relax take a deep breath an let it out everything will be ok.Your mom out of anybody in your family should know that you are a teenager now and that as you get older your hormones get stronger and maybe she will let you slide because maybe she will feel some guilt and think that its her fault for not being prepare or teaching everything you need to know about hormones.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (22 July 2007):
 If you plan on having sex regularly you should tell your doctor. Ask your mom not to go in with you.
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