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anonymous
writes:Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months and we are sexually active but the problem is that he is very rough during sex and it sometimes can be painfull. Help. What should I say to him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): "Oh sweetie, youre so big youre just going to have to be a bit more gentle!" ( i said this without even thinking to my other half, and he was super super flattered! And was gentler!)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 "Ouch, that hurts."
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reader, Mr.Joe +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Tell him that you want to have more relaxed sex. Even if you don't want slow motion sex, just tell him it hurts and its not pleasurable for you, that you want sex to be a fun and relaxing activity.
I hope this helps you.good luck.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 You're too rough with me in bed and it makes me hurt and doesn't feel good!
That's what you tell him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): Be honest. Tell him how you feel, but be gentle about it. If he really cares for you then he shouldn't get angry or upset.
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reader, kellykel9 +, writes (11 February 2011):
well just say his name i love the sex but ur a little rough lets just take it down a lil and he says sorry honey
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reader, coolbeans +, writes (11 February 2011):
 "Calm down there cowboy, this ain't no rodeo"
Chances are he's being so rough b/c he thinks it's what you'll like or what impresses you. Communication is the key to a great sex life. But if he is rough and likes it that way, well, you may have to look for another cowboy.
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