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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl about 3 months ago and instantly thought she was gorgeous. We started talking online and we're able to hold a great conversation online for hours. We met a few times again but we only spoke in person once or twice since we met.My friends asked her if she likes me and she said she does but when they try and bring her to meet me she doesn't come. Then I invited her to meet with me myself and she agreed but she ran away and hid from me when she saw me. Whenenver we see each other things are really awkward and she seems to be very uncomfortable. As well as that, I usually have to start the conversations online.I'm not really sure how anything is supposed to happen between us when I never talk to her in person. I'm not sure if she's just shy or what but I need help. What should I do next? :/
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reader, incendia1990 +, writes (11 February 2011):
 It could very well be that she is shy. Give her a little time to open up and see you. Don't pressure her.
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reader, MrsLion +, writes (11 February 2011):
 She's either really shy, not that interested in you, or really really immature and isn't going to take you seriously. especially if she ran and hid from you? Its possible she's interested in other guys, or maybe she only wants to be friends at the moment, but she knows you like her so she doesn't want to lead you onMaybe you should slow it down and wait for her to message you, that will help eliminate some of the possibilities.. if she doesn't try to contact you its possible she was never that interested. If you've been really romantic online then slow it down to just friendly stuff and wait for her to make the first moves in that area. Once again helping narrow down the possibilities.
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