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writes:I have been going to collage for a few weeks and there is a woman that has been in my english class. She could very well be as old as my mother or a little younger and she has been looking for me all the time and making passes at me after i helped her fix her computer problem she was having recently.When i was fixing her computer she got as close as she could to me where she was pressed up against me as i was working and stayed their. She started acting a bit odd for an adult from my experience, which was my first tip and it unnerved me a bit. She started almost for the lack of a better example getting as gitty as a school girl when i was talking to her while i was fixing her computer.She has talked to me about a bunch of stuff about her life like she was wanting to tell me about herself and asked a few things about me. She has been that same way ever since she got help from me that one time, im starting to think she may be a cougar and has interest in me. What can i do to show that im not interested if this continues much longer without making things awkward in class.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
That's a difficult one. She might be lonely, so has latched onto you because you've given her attention. If she's married, then you can't touch her anyway and if she suggest you can,, politely decline on the grounds that you don't agree with that. If she isn't, then make sure you're hanging around with people your own age to show her that you're not interested in her that way. Keep speaking to her though. If worst comes to worst, very gently and politely say that she's a fantastic woman, but you're not interested in her that way. It might be awkward, but she needs to be able to move on. Hope that helps.
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