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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend, until recently, used to scold me quite with full throat even for little human errors. But for the last two weeks, she has got changed because she when was scolding me last time, out of nowhere, I got closer to her and shut her mouth down with a tight and long kiss on her lips . afterward, she felt shy and left the room . Now she doesn’t scold me at all no matter if human errors occur here and there. Why that kiss changed her so much ? Because I had kissed her many times before , though not during her scolding me period, and it didn't have any bear on her unbearable anger. Now whenever we talk, she feels shy and doesn’t make eye contact with me and keeps looking at her feet which I find cute but also strange. Why one kiss has got her changed so much? You people take on this would be really appreciated here. Thanks!
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 get organized and dint take advantage of her submissive position in an abusive way, but be dominant like you were. respect her but be like you were with the kiss. its passion she.was.waiting for. give it to her
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reader, daiii +, writes (28 August 2011):
When I read this, I found the situation to be very movie-like. Guy kisses girl when she's mad and then they make love, etc. It's really cute! So it seems she felt you accepted the complaints and scolding she gave you and became angrier when you did not stand up to what she was insulting you of. So when you kissed her while she was angry, it totally threw her off! You have become more dominant with her, so I guess she feels that you are "manlier" and she likes it. She's shy to the more dominant you. And when you kissed her, it probably made her feel really... how do I say this.... excited. And if you do it again when she scolds you, she'll loose control of her hormones and allow you to take the kissing to the next level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2011): @IHateWomanBeaters : I am the same guy who posted the question from Netherlands . She used to get angry by my mistakes like leaving everything displaced in the room and having no proper organization of my room and coming late on date and stuffs. But ever since I kissed her, she got changed for better and whenever I leave something in room now, she doesn't scold or yell at me saying she will get it fixed with smile on her face. Though I am also trying to get myself organized in life but I like the why she feels shy in front of me with cute smile on her face.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 August 2011):
 Maybe she just started to feel closer to you and feel like she doesn't have to yell at you any longer? Maybe she realized she shouldn't treat you in a bad way since you care so much for her?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (28 August 2011):
shes smitten and likes the fact that you were really dominant. I believe that she was lashing out, because you were being pushed around by her and she wanted you to stand up for yourself.
You did in the right way.
We all make mistakes, so if they were not big mistakes and you didn't hurt her when you went in for the kiss, you did a damn good thing.
Small mistakes here and there can't get someone really angry with you, and sudden kisses can't get someone angry at you either, provided they are you girlfriend voluntarily, so on so forth.
We do need more detail with those two things.
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