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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm almost 14 and I'm really pariniod about being called a pervert. When girls wear tank tops and stuff I intentially notice their breasts first, but the second I realise what I'm looking I blink a bit and hope no one saw and just try to act natural. I don't do it when I'm aware and talking but when absent minded I dirft off a bit (as in my mind not my eyes). Am I a freak or what and how do I stop?
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reader, Anwar  +, writes (8 March 2008):
That is very normal, you can't really help it when you see a girl with a nice tits. Just make sure that you don't stare at them, good luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007): that's not creepy at all that's normal
you're a guy
and this is sort of a sign showing you how hetrosexual you are.
don't worry it's normal
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reader, NuttyGooner +, writes (27 April 2007):
 Not a freak, just a perfectly normal bloke... I cover up, and still find people (from teenage customers in the restaurant to the middle aged bus driver!) talking to my tits.
Glance, but don't stare, otherwise you'll find a quick clout on the chops is the painful way to learn to look away!
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reader, Keria +, writes (27 April 2007):
And don't forget, as we walk away, you can stare at our cute butts! God made them cute for a reason! But when I look you in the face, better to keep you eyes on my eyes! Ok? ;-)
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (27 April 2007):
 haha, nah your not a freak, your just male. I know its hard but you have to look them in the face, only look when they're not looking if u get the urge!!! haha, dont worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): Man, I tell ya... its natural. I was th epitome of horned up 14 year-old boy. Breasts are cool looking. OF course we men want to see as many as we can. Its all a part of bein a man. Its just repressing the urge that is difficult. Its always good to respect a woman. Plus (this will anger many women readers), you have a much better chance of getting to see them if do treat them with respect.
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reader, Keria +, writes (26 April 2007):
Young man, when you look at a woman, you need to force youself to look at her eyes. You can look at her "tits" when she is looking the other way. But when her face is towards your face, it's eye contact only. Actually that's a good thing to do in general, even if you are talking to a guy or a school teacher, or anyone... Eye contact is the key. For beautiful girls, DON'T look down!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 April 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
You are NOT a freak. Everywhere in everyplace in the world, men are staring at breasts... especially at the age of 14. Oh my, you are NOT a freak!
There's no shame in glancing, but staring is usually construed as rude. Just make an active effort to look at girls in the face. You're right, if you're caught staring too many times, the girls might not be too pleased with you. So try as hard as you can to resist staring. It's hard to stop when girls wear tank tops displaying their breasts... sometimes you can't help staring, right? Hey, I'm a girl and I'm straight and even I can't help staring sometimes!
You've already recognized that you do it, and that is 3/4ths the battle. Now just try to be a little sneakier about taking a peak, hmm?
Good luck, sweetness. You're really normal.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): This is the sender, I meant unintentially type sorry
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reader, Amazax +, writes (26 April 2007):
No your a perfectly normal teenage boy, at your age all boys ook down girls tops, its just hormones. As for stopping, well you need to beat your hormones and if you do you'll be the first haha, but really its just a thing all boys of your age go through so I wouldn't look too much into it
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