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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:umm so this guy asked me out and i sad no right so then he texts me and says ok but can we kiss a few times at this b-day party and i didnt say anything all i knew is that i did not like him and i knew that he was a creep so at the b-day party he kisses me and i push him away but he just comes back at me and i was hanging out with my friend and i asked her for help i said will you get him off of me and she was over there trying to get a picture and he still wouldnt get off of me and when i screamed at him he said aww come on you like like it and when i said no i dont he said ok fine you can go if you kiss me ten more times and so i knew that screaming at him was useless so i said you promise? and hes like yeah so i said ok but then when it was ten he like that was only 5 and then i tried to get away but then he stopped me and pinned me to the wall i started crying and then his creepy and even more perverted brother comes over and say wow your even more of a slut then i thought you were which i dont think even makes sense but any way my mom caught me and i got in trouble and she said its not write to kiss some one while a parent is in the same place. i wanted to tell her what happend so i have 3 questions was what he did wrong ,how do i tell my mom and is my friend a real friend? please help me cause im really upset and i dont know what to do
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (13 June 2008):
 i completly agree with tremor. when someone dose somethingyou dont want them to, that harrasment. if you chose to, you could get him into some pretty big trouble.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 That sounds horrible, I'm sorry they were so cruel to you.
What he did /was/ wrong - he should have respected your right to say no to him, and should not have forced you to do anything. He certainly does sound like a creep.
Tell you mother directly - just tell her the same thing you've written here. She will probably be very understanding and sypathetic - that's what mums are for.
If your friend saw you were distressed and did nothing, then no, she doesn't sound like much of a friend. But keep in mind that at your age, people are still maturing. She may have not realized how upset you were and may have thought it was all in fun. Ask her why she didn't help you, and let her know you were upset about it. If she continues to laugh it off, she might not be the kind of friend you want.
Don't let anyone tell you you're overreacting - you should never be forced into doing something you don't want to, whether it be grabbing, kissing or otherwise. I'd advise you to delete this guy's number from your phone and avoid all contact with him. Sometimes it's best to just cut all ties.
Good luck, let us know how it turns out. =)
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