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How do I approach a guy when we're both too proud?

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Question - (13 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Any suggestions on how to approach a guy that I want to have wild and passionate sex with? He and I are at a standstill because we're both too proud to approach the other. Looks like I'll have to be the one to make the first move. Should I be concerned that now he's tired of waiting?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008):

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UPDATE - I told him what I wanted. He never answered me verbally but seems he still keeps me hanging and still wants my attention. Doesn't seem right to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Since it's "wild and passionate sex" that you are looking for, rather than a relationship, you have to be daring and dump your pride for the risk of the chase. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Straight no complications sex is what you looking for, so be brave a put the proposition to him. I doubt that many men will turn this down. If he says no, then don't worry, move on and wait for the next hot guy that comes along. Don't worry, men face this problem all the time. They just ask and if it dosen't work out they forget about it and move on to the next available female.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (13 June 2008):

Tremor agony auntNothing like the old 'you ask first' standoff.

Go ahead and make the first move - you'll soon find out if he's keen or not, and the longer you wait to ask, the more likely it is that he /will/ get sick of waiting.

Hell, why not go do it now!

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