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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Since the beginning of our relationship, this girl that lives in another state but is friends with my boyfriend, has been flirting with him, call him pet names and everything. She can't say she didn't know that he was in a relationship because I've seen her say something about me to him in a wallpost and it says we're together on his profile. It is now nine months into the relationship and she is still doing it, and even more than before. Yesterday she wrote that she was going to have "secret babies" with him and she would leave her boyfriend for him. He rejected it, but barely. he said "you have a boyfriend, and I would never want to mess up people's families. I would kill myself if I did that and you have a boyfriend." I confronted him on it and I said I didn't like feeling like I was in competition with her. His response was "my competition lives here" and I said "you don't have any competition, at least not when it comes to me." all he said was "lolz" when I asked what, he said "nothing". I don't know what any of that means, but all I wanted from that conversation was for him to tell me that I wouldn't lose him to her and that he would ask her to stop flirting with him. I've gotten him to ask her to stop calling him petnames, but she still flirts with him. She's not prettier than me or anything and she lives in New York which is far away but the fact that she's doing that and he won't say anything makes me so annoyed and angry. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh and he's ignoring me now, even though I apologized for confronting him. I cant ask why he wont cut his ties with her cause I think he'll say Im being dramatic and get mad
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