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writes: I'm 13 years old, going on to 14 years old in a few months time. In my school, almost all of my friends have boyfriends/girlfriends, but I never even had a guy telling they would like me to be his girlfriend before! I like someone, I confessed it to him, but he rejected me. I feel so sad. And I seem to like many boys too. Some of my friends laugh at me since I've never been in a relationship before. They always talk about their boyfriends around me: how good they were, and how good it like when they kiss all that stuff.And I feel so envious and jealous and mixed emotions like that. I really wanna to have a boyfriend. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2006): Hunny, I wouldn't let this bother you! I know what its like when you feel you're the only girl without a boyfriend but you have plenty of time. Don't let your friends get to you because you will find someone. It's better to be patient for the right guy then to choose anyone just because you like the idea of a boyfriend. Trust me, I spent the whole of last year going out, breaking up and going out with this guy, now its totally over and i'm so glad to be rid of him. It didnt work out because I didnt like him for him, I like him for the attention he gave me and because I could say "I have a boyfriend". This kind of relationshipo never works out, so just wait for mr. right. It will be worth it!
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reader, AuntyYasmin +, writes (5 February 2006):
Hey no problem! Glad I have helped!
I wouldn't say boys are shyer, they are just the same as us. Boys are going through the same feelings and emotions as us growing up. Enjoy being single when you are and enjoy being in a relationship when you are! They both have equal advantages and disadvantages!
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reader, feelingx_troubled +, writes (5 February 2006):
feelingx_troubled is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for actually noticing my question, and make an effort to answer it, i needed that. Is guys more shy than girls, hmmm...haha...*ah-choo *sniff sniff...having a cold...
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reader, AuntyYasmin +, writes (5 February 2006):
Aw honey, do not feel unhappy in the slightest! Things will change very soon!
I am 19 and I only had my first kiss at 14. And I only kissed him because I felt the same as you, and I now regret it!
I remember how much I longed to have a boyfriend too! But soon you will be meeting guys, going to partys, be flirted with, asked out etc. Its all part of growing up...everyone experiences everything in life at different times.
You just be yourself 100%. A guy may even like you but may be too shy to say anything to you! You just be confident and cool like you sound and you won't have a problem! And do you know what? I bet 90% of your friends are lying about kissing and all that stuff. Everyone exaggerates to make themselves look cooler.
And for them to laugh at you? Thats just mean and they only laugh to make themselves feel better! You take your time growing up hun, enjoy being young, and trust me; being single has as many advantages as being in a relationship!
Trust me, I have been in a relationship for 3 years and boys get controlling, jealous, they want to know your business constantly. SO being single...there is less chance of being hurt, you can do what you want when you want, you can talk to who you like. And you will get alot more respect if you only kiss and all that relationship stuff with somebody you really like. Guys secretely love that! And I was only asked to be someones girlfriend at 15! And now I have had 4 boyfriends. Two long term ones! I only went out with someone if I really liked them. I never would have thought any of that would happen when I was 13!
Start enjoying life, and when you least expect it, your prince charming will appear! Just try to be friends with guys for now. Everything will happen when it should! XX
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