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writes:Every time I date someone I think of him then I break it off because I try and find everything possibly wrong with that person. How do I get over the love that was let go in an instant. To me my future has no hope for another love like mine ... or what i once had.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): It's been 3 years now & I still havent fully got over a heartbreak. I still think about my ex from time to time.
But what I do think of, is the ways which the relationship didn't work out at all. Becuase all relationships end for a reason. It was hard at first (like everyone says! But it's true)I had a lot of rebounds and flings, but finally I met someone who blew my ex out of the water completely, I feel like a princess everyday with him. I even sometimes try to fault him, which is natural as nobody likes to make the same mistakes, but I can't he's that great. And do you know what? If in the longrun we end up splitting up I won't be too sad, in a way I'll be thankful because I can find someone even better than the last.
But chin up because when your personality shines through thats what people fall in love with. And thats what makes you stronger so that next time you won't get too hurt.
But I can esure you that you'll find love again, because it always comes and goes when we least expect it.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 June 2008):
 Your trying to compare, and trying to find someone just like the past. I look at the past as a chapter in a book of memories. When you date someone new, start a new chapter. Who know, he may be different, but you may write a new wonderful chapter.
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