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writes:Okay so I get dumped by my ex due to a pathetic row, can't get over him then start fancying his best mate. what do I do? I was seeing my ex 7 months back, seems like yesterday, was totally in love with him when he broke up with me, I still think i am. I can't help it. It's just so hard to move on when I see him everyday, memories haunt me whenever he smiles, frowns, shouts. Everthing he does, reminds me of our relationship we had. He's had a few girlfriends since then, nothing serious but enough to hurt me.Now I fancy his best mate, Jamie.. when I first met both of them, I liked Jamie most but he never made a move whereas my ex made it more obvious he liked me. When I was dating, I didn't think about Jamie, he was history and I loved my boyfriend but now, everythings changed, Jamie hasn't got a girlfriend anymore and I like him. Should I make a move?? He's talking and flirting just like when I met him so I don't know what to do?Please help?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 June 2008):
This sounds like one big mess waiting to happen. I would stay away from both these guys so you can get some distance.
The fact you fancy his mate is a good sign, it means you are getting over your ex. Now you just need to find new and different guys to fancy and you will be all fixed.
Get out there girl, there is a whole world.
Good Luck!! xx
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