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writes: i'm 15. i dont masturbate. am i ment to? cos a lot of people say everybody maturbates.second question is how do you masturbate? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): you dont have to masturbate but its very common, a female would masturbate by sticking their fingers or something smooth inside their vagina or rubbing their clitorus until you reach your orgasm
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): yes masturbation is normal for teens. i started when i was 13 and i masturbate pretty much daily and it feels good. i think you should masturbate whenever you get the chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Masturbation is a very personal thing that shouldnt be anything to be nervous about.
I was the saem as you not too long ago, i needed advice from people on how to do it. My advice is to go to your bedroom and close the door, its even better if the house is empty.
Take your clothes off and lay on your bed and do what the others have said. just be slow and dont rush.
I know this is post was made in 2006 but it would be so cool to find out how you got on with it and if this site/advice helped you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): okay this is what you do:just get urself som privacy lik ur room and lok the doorsif ur afraid that you may hav an orgasm durin the process just put very load noise inside a.k.A. lik turn up the tv or put up the radio real highafter uve found a nice and private place just start rubbing urself in ur clit (u no that thingy in between ur vagina lips or in other words that small lil thing in between ur 2 strechy things) u could either rub it smoothly or go realy fast but go on the pace that feels "good " for urubbin is way more pleasurable then fingerin but for som pplz both r great just wile ur rubn ur most likly r gona get wet so wen u feel liquids comin out just stil ur finger inside of u (ur vagina not ur but) then keep on untill uve had enoughif it helps just close ur eyes n just feel the feeling that ur feelin if it hurts then ur goin 2 roughly hope this helps u understad xD
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): if ur a male i can help it is easy but dont get caught right to start find a place that suites you and get ur penis out start playing with it until it gets hard enough then put ur hand close to the top and leave about 1cm then start to push ur skin up and down if ur penis is big do not pull the skin right down cuz it will hurt but if it is a bit small it will b easier and keep going until u giv up or cum
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): you take your fingers and rub your vagina. sticking your fingers in your vaginal opening might make this more pleasurable. you might want a man to like your vagina too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): you dont have to but find Its better if you do.
you have to be 13+ to masturbate
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (20 June 2006):
 I started masterbating at 13, everyone is different. We all develop at different levels. I started to rub myself against things, then it came naturally for me to experiment with my hand, when I found this too rough (I like the more gentle touch, but again everyone is different..) I started to use my fingers against my clitoris, feels nice when you wet your fingers, not dry. Just experiment, you will soon know what makes you hot and what doesn't. Do it when your'e ready to, when you feel those tingly sensations down there. ENJOY!! x
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (20 June 2006):
 I think Ive lost the plot now with what tangent Martini was on lol... Ahem bit of a wild one is he tee hee x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): That aminal [wink] is, oops, was my bunny. His name was Berrimellow Lau-Cheng, but now, his name is probably Berrimellow Lau-Kwok. Hahahaha... [ahem] 8]
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reader, smeedle +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Martini has as usual covered the basics and has given you ideas to get you started if that is what you desire, maybe not such a good idea to start rubbing yourself up against the washing machine when your folks are around, they may view this as "odd"!!.(martini lives alone so no one sees what he rubs up against!!)
When you do feel like you want to masterbate and im sure you will, you may need some erotic reading material or some such aide to get you started as it all starts in the mind.
you can escape to fantasy world when masterbating and no one knows what thoughts you are thinking that bring you to climax, enjoy and enjoy some more, but word of warning, just take it easy at first, gentle pressure not full on initially as you do not want to make yourself sore, and maybe not take up martini`s suggestion of pencil rubbers, one may come loose and that would be embarrassing at the local accident and emergency department.!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Last thing before I head for home: I once had a fantasy of putting cotton padding on a chicken, and tying into onto a woman's waist, where the chicken would then 'scratch' her pussy with its padded feet... Weird eh? [grins]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Ah yes! The washing machine! 8] Vibrating phones, bottles, cucumbers, potatoes, someone's school bag, knee... Or blow up a balloon and put its opening to your pussy... 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Masturbation is sexual pleasure that you give yourself. Everybody does it differently, but it usually involves touching their sexual parts. you do it when you feel ready its good because you can explore your body and find out what you like sexually.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (19 June 2006):
To ad to Martini's post who by the way has referred you to an excellent site! I would just say that its trial and error, take some time on your own and see what feels good for you. None of us are the same and what works for one doesnt work for someone else. IF of course you dont want to masturbate then dont! Its not a given that you have to, take your time explore and dont be scared! Try it all out and theres bound to be something that you really like!
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Well, that's a first... [ponders] Masturbation is a preference. It's neither normal or abnormal to do it or not. Just like if everyone else smoked cigs and drank beer, it doesn't mean you should or should not smoke and drink.
As for your second question, there are many ways to masturbate. For a female, you'll have to do some experimentation, trial and error before you know what works. Some females like to rub their clit side ways, up and down, or in circles - faster as they near a climax. Some females prefer to stick one to three fingers inside, in and out in and out. Some do a combination of things, including using vibrators, dildos, desk/table corners, book corners, pencil eraser tips, and so on.
You can find some masturbation tips here: http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/masturbation.htm
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