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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi there, This must be a silly question from a 24 year old woman. There is a guy at my church which I really like and would like to know how I can get closer to him and get t know him better. We are unfortunately not involved at church in the same activities. How can I make him notice me?
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reader, porty +, writes (15 May 2007):
I'd say you can always make the first move, if a girl would come to me and say hello, I would definitely notice her :)
An alternative is of course a longer way, looking up for common friends or friends of friends who know this guy.
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reader, dragonette +, writes (15 May 2007):
No, it's not a silly question. For some people it's harder to reach out than for others. Try making eye contact, or giving him a smile. See if he smiles back. If he does, go over and talk to him. Any topic is good. Ask him if he's enjoying his activities, or talk about how good the weather has been lately.
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