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writes:right now thing b/w me and my bf is going down the drain slowly...i dont know how (both of us) how to fix it, we promise each other we'll change, but for me im not. im going through what i use to do 3 years ago when i was 14: mentally cut myself,(i am not emo kind of ppl), depress lately, and always in pain. i cut way too deep on my wrist and now it wont stop bleeding unless i put too much pressure on it.i told him about it and he told me to stop and i havent. i just want our 1 year and 5 months relationship to last. I want to change for good and by doin that what should I personally do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 February 2008):
 It is idealistic to think relationship can last forever.If you are meant to be together, you will .You should leave that to fate or destiny or providence.
Everyone of us will grow and change. When you were a baby , you need milk and when you became an adult, you eat solid food.
Your wants and your taste will change. Some where down the road , you may think differently.
For now, you want your relationship to last and I can tell you it is not easy but you can try.
Do not make him unhappy.
Love him like you love yourself.
You may have to sacrifice your needs for his.
Bend back as much as you can
Walk that extra mile for him.
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reader, accused +, writes (14 February 2008):
 Well you have to stop CUTTING YOURSELF, mentally and physcally.. You can't have a relationship if YOUR NOT HERE! Seriously, you need to stop with the none sense of hurting yourself no matter how you do it. How can someone else love you, if you don't love yourself? Why would you cut yourself and then go tell someone YOU LOVE about it? Are you looking for attention? Listen, I had a brother who use to do the same thing as you, and if you noticed I said "I HAD"! Feel free to send me a private line if you need someone to talk to... Just understand that loving yourself has to be the first thing you do, before you can love someone else! You are the most important person in the world! Best of luck......Accused
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