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anonymous
writes:This question is for ladies.I got married 5 months back, and we have intercourse once every 2 days (almost). The problem is that when I am pumping, she has very little or no sensation.She does feel really good sometimes, but I have been unable to notice any pattern in this.On 3 occasions, it happened that she was almost screaming when I was pumping hard, and she was enjoying it. Then I took a break of about 5 seconds out of tiredness. When I started again, all her sensations died. I was pumping exactly the same way.Please tell me what to do so that my wife enjoys sex as much as I do.Some help really needed here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): Maybe you should change up the old routine..add some oral to it or maybe more foreplay..i really like foreplay and oral it helps to make evrything wayyy better for me..we had the same problem but after a qwik convo the problem was solved..hoppe this was help..
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reader, dorothy2342  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 It is not completely your job to make sure your wife is enjoying sex as much as you are, it requires 50/50 participation. Women receive pleasure from clitoral stimulation, that is why most women orgasm easier from oral sex. It is the same in intercourse. The clitoris still needs stimulation. My suggestion is trying different positions, some of them require her to take the more aggressive role, in order for her to receive the clitoral stimulation she needs. Have you heard of the Kama sutra, it is the ancient art of pleasure, including over 60 sexcual positions. The Kama sutra comes from India, Google indian kama sutra for the site, it gives illustrations for the different positions. I can not give you the link to the site because it is not suitable material for younger readers. This material should be read and studied by you and your wife together. You can also purchase the book, the Complete Illustrated Kama sutra at Amazon.com. I hope this helps you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): For me i would say definitely the key is foreplay. At least in the early years of marriage when we were discovering what worked and what didnt, it was essential...a man can dive in and be done before a woman ever leaves the side of the pool. mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Maybe try some other form of sex- oral or with your hands. Sex toys can be useful if you can find any. Have you asked your wife what she would like you to do? Communication is usually the best way to solve sexual problems. Experiment with your lips, tongue, fingers, until you find something that makes her feel good. If she's already very aroused when you start having sex it might make it easier for her to orgasm or at least make it feel better for her.
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