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writes:i am in class 10th and love a girl who is a year younger than me.. The problem is that she hates me a lot. Once i had proposed her but she said no with a reason that she thinks me as her brother.... I can't take big steps because it's school days so please suggest some easy ways to make her love me... I love her a lot.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (11 July 2013):
 Hi, You can't make anyone love you. Greek mythology had phials of potions that Tristan and Isolde drank, and Romeo and Juliet drank a love potion. Narcissus also looked into a river and fell in love with his reflection. For you, this is real life and I'm afraid you can't make it happen.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 July 2013):
 there is an old Bonnie Raitt Song "I can't make you love me"
so very true
you can NEVER make anyone LOVE you if they do not have those feelings for you...
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 July 2013):
 I have found that the best way to make yourself attractive to a teenaged girl is to make her friends think you are the best thing since sliced bread (or naan?). Spend less time on her and focus on her closest friends. In fact, ignore her a bit and have her best friend notice you, in a positive way, of course.
You are too focused on this one girl and she can sense that. It's very boring to a teenage girl to have a boy literally throw himself at her feet. There's no challenge and there's nothing there that she can show off to her friends.
If she sees her friends noticing you and possibly developing crushes on you, that may re-adjust her view of you.
So ease up, ease off, ignore her for a bit and get her friends to pay you lots of attention. It they think you are smart, funny and dateable, that will influence her more than anything.
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