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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been through alot,during my childhood! I sort of grew up so fast,and when I was in both primary and secondary school,others always made fun of me,I was taller than all my classmates and looked more mature than them, I became a woman earlier than the rest Everywhere I passed i heard people laughing and I always thoght that they were talking about me! Now that am 19 I still hear the echos of their laughter,sometimes my siblings make fun of me as in just to annoy meThe major point is that I can't fall in love, I'm afraid of loving a guy,i'm always afraid that he ends up telling me that I have big hips or that i have big breast,even when he compliments me, i feel like he's lying! So whenever i see that someone is getting too close i run away before anyhing happens!Recently i was going out with a guy,i liked him i could have swore that i loved him, and he just didn't treat me right i always felt uncomfortable, he always prefered being with his friends rather than me! the only thing that he liked was watching me walk away! I'd really like to live like a normal girl and forget about what people think about me. Its a living torture i've tried to get rid of this tendance but i just can't! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I understand what you mean, I should cease building my life on according to peoples' comments!
It won't be easy that's for sure,but I'm going to try! i've got nothing to loose anyway!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 July 2010):
You are a normal girl!
I had some of the same problems as you. I grew up too quickly when I was young, both mentally and physically, and took a lot of rubbish from people. But I'm in love now, even if it did take me a few years to get there.
The biggest thing is to give yourself time. You've been through a lot, so spend time on yourself and really work on being confident and on enjoying your own life without others in it. Build your own life up, make a few friends, have a few hobbies that you can go to if it all goes wrong.
Also, be careful of the guy you fancy. you seem to have fallen for a 'bad boy' last time, and you might again unless you take steps to build your confidence.
I promise you that a man will come into your life at some point and adore you, and your curves, and everything about you. He will. But you need to make sure you have your own life first.
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