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writes: i have been talking this guy online for about a month. we have never met but we have a few mutual friends and study at the same college institute.whilst we have been talking the conversation has been getting better in the conversation we are just trying to get to knw each other it is quite humorous. but i wanted to ask now he has now started asking me more about myself what i like to do etc. does tht mean he maybe interested or am i reading into it too much?!also, i asked him how old he was as i wasnt sure, will that send him the wrong signals or will he think nothing of it than just curiosity! ? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): how old are you isn't a very probing question so i doubt he'll think anything of it ( "do you have a girlfriend is"). Think about the topics you talk about in your convos do they include what turns you on, is there a lot of teasing involved or is it just how are you? oh i have a sister too kind of thing. If it's more like the second i doubt he wants a relationship. But the fact that he wants to know more about you and your friends know him some how, mean that you could come off the net and meet him for a drink as friends or something :)
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (9 August 2008):
you are definitely reading wayyy too much into it! guys are simple animals and girls like to overanalyze. it's a fact of life.
he is trying to get to know you so he is asking you what you like to do. he is interested in you as a friend at most from what you have described. remember you are only online friends and there has been no hint that he wants to meet up for a date just yet.
since he is looking at things from this perspective, asking his age probably meant nothing at all.
if you want it to become something, give it a little more time and let it progress a little further, then maybe hint?
good luck.
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