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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was with someone for 9months when he started pressuaring me for sex, I panicked and didn't know what to do.I had been friends with this other boy for years and we got on really well, at about the same time I found out he liked me, he made me laugh so I used this as an excuse to get out of sex so ended the relationship and started seeing him.I've been with my new boyfriend for a couple of months now but I still miss my ex.My new boyfriend knows how much he meant to me so doesn't let me speak to my ex at all.I don't want to lose the friendship between me and my boyfriend but feel like I fell in love with our friendship and not him as a person.Do I miss my ex or do I miss the routine and habit of being with him? I'm confused :(
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reader, gracebfg +, writes (17 July 2009):
personally i think its both, if you have the urge to get back with your ex then go for it! your current boyfriend isnt letting you talk to him, dont let anybody control you in that way, its your life you can talk to or be with who ever you want.
I was with my ex for a year and a half in the end i relized i missed the routine of us being together but one i got a boyfriend it stopped because i had somebody there for me, with you its different i think you love your ex and should get back with him
hope that helped =]
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GraceBFG
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