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30-35,
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writes:I just want tips about how to find out if my boyfriend has marriage in his future. I don't want to beat around the bush, I genuinely want to ask him. He's going to be 30 this year, and I'm much younger. I'm certainly not ready to tie the knot and I doubt he is too but I'd like to know if he wants to get married or not.He's made comments in the past that have made me think he sees me in his future, "we will this kind of house," or teasing what our kids could potentially look like. That's all fun and I don't read too much into it but then again, I want to know if he and I will just be "in a relationship" status forever (or not.)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 August 2012):
It's good that you don't want to beat around the bush, because that's exactly what people need to do over issues like this.
Time you sat down with him, and just said that you'd like to talk about where he sees this relationship going.
Does he want children?
Does he want to get married?
Is this relationship the one he wants to stick with or is it a passing fancy?
Career wise, where is hoping to go with it?
Have you met his family?
Have you met his friends?
And so on.
Go sit down with him, have a chat about the above and see what answers he gives. Also be willing to answer these questions yourself.
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