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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello, Did i do wrong by taking my new boyfriends (now ex bf) best mate out to get something for his house? hes male and i think hes was trying to get between us for suggesting i took him to this place,as he told my bf what i was doing its really bugging me as weve now split and its happend all since then,Also when we where still together he invited me round his house which i did but he was alseep so i could not get in so to make him hear so i was knocking on his windows and spoke to his neighbours who was outside did i do wrong by that he said it was very embarassion, Is it all my fault that we split it's always on my mind, any help from anyone especially men thanks xxxx
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reader, heartsick +, writes (6 February 2008):
No, I don't think you did wrong. I think your ex was looking for an excuse.....If he was really into you, these things would either not bother him or he would give you the benefit of the doubt.Ask yourself - would you be bothered by him doing these things? If not, why not? Probably because they're not a big deal, and you really liked him.Stop torturing yourself thinking you brought on the end of the relationship. If he had been really happy, this would not have split you. It isn't very comforting to think that he may not have liked you as much as you liked him - but better than beating yourself up thinking you caused the relationship to end.If he had been the right guy for you, he would have loved you for the way you act and the things you do - not condemned you over such petty things. It was a bit weak of him to blame you and let you feel this way. He could have just been honest and said he was sorry, but he didn't feel strongly enough about you, instead of laying all the guilt on you.One day soon, you'll see that you're worth better!
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (6 February 2008):
 I am afraid you have made a fatal error by doing the event that you have described,if it was myself in his position i would think that you were chasing after my mate, and would have finished with you straight away,the only thing you can do know is go out and enjoy yourself and find another b/f,i think you now realize the mistake you have made and will not repeat it again in the future, it is very easy to loose trust in a relationship, but running after another bloke innocent or not is the cause of your break up.
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