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How do I interpret these mixed signals from him?

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Question - (3 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy I love moved away about 7 months ago and he comes home for winter break, spring break, and a month of summer break. He lives 600 miles Away and I'm still in high school so I cant visit. Well, last week when he was drunk he told me he loved me and wanted to marry me. He's told me he loved me before(sober) but the marriage thing was new. Well... That made me want to ask him again about being in a relationship. He said no that being that far away and only seeing each other for that little of time a year would not work. So I stopped talking to him for 3 days in hopes of NOT ever speaking to him again until I was over him I then started to talk to him again it's been 4 days that we've been talking again and he's acting strange now. What do I do?!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (3 February 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntDo you really want to hold him accountable for his drunken marriage proposal? A guy proposes to you sober dropped down on one knee with a gorgeous ring; that is if he really loves you and wishes to marry you.

So what happened the first time when you asked him about being in a relationship? How is he acting strange?

If he didn't initiate a LDR before he moved away, or if you guys never had a relationship when you were in the same area, then it sounds like he's not interested. Or perhaps, he doesn't do LDRs and can't be in a relationship with you. Just taking a stab here, due to lack of info.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (3 February 2011):

dirtball agony auntActing strange how? What's he doing? During the 3 days you weren't speaking to him, was he trying to contact you? Were you ignoring him?

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