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writes:Please help me interpret this guys actions. Me a guy last November at a restaurant, he live five hours away. He flirted with me and we went out once. He came into town several times and asked to get together but did not follow through.. There was no sex involved. After that he called me but I ignored the calls and texts because he was unreliable..so he friended me on facebook and said where have u been$ I told him point blank he was unreliable and I have a. Problem with that. He told me he had been working hard. Then he asked to to get together severAl times oF which I turned him down. Finally. We meet up for. A drink two weeks ago at a bar and he almost got in a fight with some guyS because they were trying to flirt with me. I did nOt give any attention to the guys that night except my date. He went back to his hometown and we texted we wanted rto get together again. I did not hear from him for a week and a half so I called him today and he said he was busy doing yard work.. What is this guys deal??
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 The deal is that this guy seems to be a total jerk,and the sooner you get away from him, the better is is for you. Iv been in a disastrous relationship with a guy like this once...very similar pattern....uncannily similar...and all i can tell you is that...this hard work story is just crap. nobody on this planet works so "hard" that they don't have time for one text message or a phone call.This "Iv been really busy","Iv been out of town", "My work is killing me" nonsense is just complete SHIT.
What this guy does is that, he pursues you and then vanishes...he will make you feel on top of the world when he is with you, and then again disappear into thin air leaving you down in the dumps wondering what on earth happened. Very soon, you might get drawn into his charming web (he will try and tell you how much he cares about you, that he cant stand any other man looking at you, that he loves you to death) and getting out of this mess will be a nightmare.
Trust me...its NOT worth it...trying to decipher what he's trying to do. Get away from it ASAP.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (30 August 2010):
What is your deal that you need to figure this guy out? isn't the writ'ing on the wall for you. let go of something that isn't there! beofore you head down the wrong road you said it yourself, he got in a fight with some guys over you he sounds like he can be very very abusive and has no good intentions w/ you at all move on...........
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