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How do I go about contacting this man I met through work?

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Question - (9 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *aniackru writes:

hello everyone. I would like some advice please.

I recently undertook a temporary job for 8 weeks and met some lovely people, in particular a nice man! I did not see him everyday for the 8 weeks, as he only worked for 3 days and only came back from his holidays in my 6th week, so all in all I only saw him for 6 days!

He was very nice and funny but now my question is I would like to get in touch with him but I do not know how, I doubt I will ever see him again unless I get in touch! I have searched on facebook and have found his profile but I am very hesitant in adding him I do not know how he will react and if it is even a good thing to do as he was a work colleague???

any advice will be appreciated!

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A female reader, T-Marie United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2010):

T-Marie agony auntHello again,

If you add him on facebook, he doesn't know it's because you really like him! As far as he is concerned you may just be trying to aquaint yourself better with those you work with.

It is surely better to try than to regret never knowing :)

Best of luck xxx T

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (9 August 2010):

Denise32 agony auntOh, for goodness sake, go ahead and add him on facebook!

The worst that can happen is he might ignore you if he doesn't want to hear from you. The best is that he could be happy to be added and a chance to get better acquainted!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010):

Did you get along? Was he on the same level as you at work or your superior?

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A female reader, maniackru United States +, writes (9 August 2010):

maniackru is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thankyou for your answer, but my only problem is that it is work related and I may be going back there to work again so I dont want it to be awkward or cause problems in the future. Also, I dont want to appear like a wierdo adding anyone i ever meet on facebook!!

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A female reader, T-Marie United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2010):

T-Marie agony auntHi there, I would probably just go ahead and add him on facebook. The worst that could happen is that he ignores your request.

If he adds you then you can start chatting to him again, if you got on well together, as you said he was funny and a really nice guy, he should be pleased you have added him.

Just remember that as nice as he is you haven't known him very long so if all goes well on that facebook front. Make sure if you meet up with him you let someone know where and when you are going xxxx best of luck :)

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