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writes: My bf used to do coke and other class A drugs, and although he's now clean it's taken it's toll on his body and he often has trouble during sex. Sometimes he just comes so quickly I haven't even realised that we'd started. I tend to let him do all the work during sex because I know that if I'm thrusting he'll come that much faster. Unfortunately my problem is completely the opposite, as I have trouble reaching orgasm, so trying to make him last longer often leaves me unsatisfied as it's not intense enough for me. Is there anything we can do?
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reader, glassofwater +, writes (29 September 2006):
help yourself. tell him he can stop if he feels its getting close and just kiss.
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 Three things...
One.. get him to satisfy you first with his hands, mouth, toy whatever and then he can continue to do what he normally does.
Two.. have a read up on things you can do to prevent premature ejaculation as there are certain things you and him can do to prolong this, including exercises.
Three.. see his doctor regarding this issue.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006):
I doubt VERY MUCH his class A drug usage is a cause of him prematuring ejaculating before you are ready. All he needs to do is learn a bit of self control. It is easy, for a man, to "stop" or slow down, before the "point of no control" so that he can keep on having sex.
You need much more foreplay and less, err, banging.
I'm sure you can both work something out, if you are both willing. Good luck!
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reader, fallenman  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 One way I can suggest is to let him bring you to near orgasm with his fingers and then to have intercourse.
Another way is to mount him on top so that you can control the
the thrusting as he will be static, at the same time he can rub your clit with some KY gel with each thrust you make. In some women the sensitive part of the clit is to high for the penis to excite and in the missonary position the G spot can be hard to reach.
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