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writes:I'm 3rd year Electronics engineering student,I like a girl and I had been proposed her 1 year ago but she says that we are good friends.I have special feelings for her I still love her.What should be done which help to get my answer? Reply to this Question
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reader, TamyKarcz  +, writes (5 October 2011):
 If she said No, then she has her reasons. Don't try to push things if she already has made up her mind.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (5 October 2011):
 If you asked this girl to marry you, and you were only good friends and weren't in no current relotionship at the time it really doesnt make much sense? You have to acutally love eachother first, you can't just leap into marriage after all it is a very big step. If you want her to be your girlfriend, then the only thing i can suggest you do is build up your friendship slowly, flirt with her abit or maybe invite her out on a date for dinner or something. See how she reacts to flirting if she maybe ignores you or just gives you the cold shoulder i would just leave it there and move on. Like fi_the_tree said you cannot force someone to love you, and you will just have to respect her decision that she doesn't want to be with you, but don't be disheartened as like the famous phrase says "theres pleanty more fish in the sea".
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (5 October 2011):
 Did you actually ask her to marry you? Or just to be your girlfriend? Either way, if she said no, then you have to respect her decision. Be happy with the fact that she is your good friend, you can't force her to have the same feelings that you have for her.
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