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writes: ive been with my bf for over 2years now we have regular sex atleast 5times a week but it just doesnt have the spark it used to. sex is never spontanious we could be laying in bed and one would say to the other u fancy sex? den there would be a discussion as to who goes on top and then we undress ourselves, am i wrong for wanting a little bit more? also he used to watvch me as i got dressed an stuff but now he dont bat an eyelid, i havent changed i havent put any weight on so im just really confused. how can we get that spark back? xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): Take a break from sex.Talk to each other, then plan on a Saturday night to remember....Even for highly sexed folk, five times is becoming a bit like cleaning your teeth honey. you are bored with a great sex life? i'm jealous........
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 5 times a week is probably on the high end of normal. Nothing wrong with that but that's probably the truth. What about 2 or 3 times a week. That way he has something tolook forward to as opposed to something that might have become a chore. Spice it up a little. Do something different. It's hard to be creative when it's 5 times a week.
By the way, it does diminish after a while, like anything else. That's when you have to hope you've built astrong relationship with other things that mean something.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 It is very easy for your sex life to become stale after a while. There is no right or wrong answer for boosting this aspect of your life. However, have you thought of spending a weekend away in a hotel - go to a place neither have you have been before and take a trip to ann summers or a similar shop before the trip. Men love novelty and surprises in the bedroom so kidnap him one weekend and take him somewhere new, and show him something new! If he is a football fiend then perhaps leave it until the world cup is over! Unless you want to dress up as a giant football, and then he will probably start drooling at the mouth :-)
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