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writes:I've been really good friends with my friend *Rupert* for years now. When we're together I just feel completely relaxed and at ease and he's always the first person I go to when I am upset. Somehow whatever else is going on in my life, when I go to him it's like the curtain just comes down on everything else and for a while I don't have to face up to anything bad that's going on. I think that's why we're so close. Lately we've been feeling closer and closer to eachother and have both admitted we have feelings for eachother. I'm really excited about the prospect of a relationship with him as it just feels natural but Im finding I'm so nervous around him now. Im nervous when he goes to kiss me and when he cuddles me and Im just wondering if this is normal. It almost feels strange because we were friends for so long, and now we're seeing eachother intimately and being romantic and everything. How do I get over these nerves and just enjoy the new relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Hi bbs,
Every1's new to their Realationships, You just need to no how to handle them,
People get nervous Quite Alot, Expecially Around Boyfriends/Girlfriends.
It Just takes time, to settle in to a Relationship thats so new to eatchother,
Things will be fine soon,
I've been with the boy im with now, for nearly 3 months, and i've just started getting over my nerves.
Things should be clear to you both soon and you can go back acting the way you use to (:
Goodluckkk,.
Takecareee.
Tiierney'''hutsonn x
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You just have to relax a little sweetheart it is a strange move going from feeling happy great and relaxed with your mate to then being intimate..But the good thing about this relationship is you know each other so well, You bonded before you both got intimate with each other you both understand one another, To start a relationship out as friends is good as you just no that persons likes and dislikes .Its strange because your just not used to it, give it time enjoy every moment and slowly you will become more relaxed, The nerves are there as you feel all full of butterflies (is that spelt right? oh well) massage is a good way to relax with your partner and get close sweetheart, Its perfectly normal to for you to feel nervous as its all new to you, Give this time enjoy your new found love and be happy hunny CONGRATULATIONS SWEETHEART WITH LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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