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writes:i am 30 , found the love of my life 8 months ago, i never imagined any 2 could be that compatible, we totally understand each other, and she is the joy of my life! The sole problem is: I am not physicaly attracted to her at all! When we get together i keep on trying to convince myself she's sexy and that i must be horny but it doesnt work. This process of thinking itself turns me off and an endless loop of "unattraction - thinking - turned off even more" develops. She is a bit skiny and very very short, but what the heck i was attracted to much less attractive girls before! Why is there this "block" between me and her physicaly? why can i easily fantasize about other women easily but its impossible to fantasize about her? I've had a couple of bad experiences in the past (failed erection cause i was too drnk, etc..) which could be an explanation, but why then would the problem be specificaly with her???? Could it be posible that 2 people love each other but one absolutely repulses the other sexually?? HELP! please tell me how to get over this problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Realy? Congrats! But I can tell your not very exited. Looks arnt everything and it shows a great man to realise that! I think she is 1 lucky woman its every girls dream to find some1 that likes her for her! Not her bra size . . . [but I think its best not telling her about not finding her attractive coz that might hurt her feelings and think shes not good anouth =( ] My advice is to just be happy! Even if shes not exactly the next super modle of year that does'nt matter if you really love HER.
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reader, justaguy79 +, writes (13 August 2008):
justaguy79 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've been through lots of friendships with other girls, i know what a friendship is, but i've got feelings towards her that i've never felt in a friendship: i feel that she "lights up the room", i feel she completes me, i feel so protective over her, i can see her the mother of my children! do you find that in FRIENDHSIP?? dont think so.
I would be appreciative for any positive suggestions as we already got married 2 weeks ago!
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