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writes:The summer before last I dated a guy and fell in love with him even though I knew he was moving half way across the country (I live in Canada so that's really far). Needless to say, after he moved I couldn't bear the long distance thing so I broke up with him. It was unbearable but not as bad as remaining in the relationship without ever being able to see him. Anyway, It has been just over a year since we broke up and I still think about him every day. I have been with a few guys since but none of them were right for me. How do I get over him? I have already stopped talking to him months ago.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer. You're right keeping busy is good cause it seems to be worse when I stop to think about it. I'm definitely miles ahead of where i was last year. I just hope one day I won't think about him. I wish you the best too! Thanks so much.
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reader, misztoria  +, writes (24 October 2011):
 Aww I'm sorry to hear about this. Normally I would say keep yourself as busy as possible, avoid all contact, remove traces of him from your life and try to meet new guys. Seems like you've done all these things and you're still hung up on him. I would say continue on with what you're doing and eventually the feelings should start to fade. It's hard when we're young to fall in love and lose that person. I just broke up with my bf because we live four hours away and he wasn't contacting me and making an effort to stay in the relationship. This was only a few days ago, but everyday I feel a little bit better, but I do still love him. If I were you, I'd really try hard to stay busy and meet new people. Other than that I wish you the best of luck and a hug from a fellow broken-hearted woman.
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