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writes:Thanks for everyone who has taken the time to answer this. Ok so I'm almost 19 year old male student in college. I started talking to this beautiful woman who I met in the computer lab (23 by the way) at my college. We started talking and I got to know a lot about her. She's in a lot of college clubs, she's smart and she's serious about her school work. I knew that she obviously had an interest in me because she drove me to my house and we spent time there. We kissed and you know etc.... lol Any ways I understand that she's busy and everything and she tells me she's afraid of failing her classes. I asked if she thinks about me and she says yes she does often. So I told her that we shouldn't talk for a week so I wouldn't get her distracted so she can catch up with her work. But I wanted to see her on Friday so I went to her usual hangout spot near the college club and I had a picture that drew for her ( She told me she likes things made not bought so I drew her a beautiful picture of a bird and a rose). I'm an artist by the way so I'm really good at drawing and I took a lot of time on it just for her. I didn't see her come and I just got angry. I knew that I said the plan was for us not to see each other for a week and that was my fault. Despite all of it and she says she thinks about me, she doesn't respond to my emails, and she did offer me her number but i told her lost my phone so I can't call her. So the problem that I have is, is she too busy for me, is this girl truely thinking about me? I'm just a dumb guy when it comes to understanding women. They are to complex for me. And also just to add in more info she says she cares about me and that I shouldn't call her my gf for now even though we kissed and made out and ect. So what does she want from me? Could this be a game? Is this just setting me up for heart break? Thanks once again for everyone who has taken the time to answer my question and I will read your advices for this. Thanks once again guys. =) Reply to this Question
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reader, frankman +, writes (24 October 2011):
I think you should get involved- your self- in lot of activities, sport and clubs to be busy beside studying or seeing your friends and most importantly never stop your life for her and think too much ( obsessed about her ).
The fact that she is busy, makes you missing her much and I'm afraid if you didn't make your self busy, love might fade away! at least from her side.
If you became in-love with her, take a serious step with in the future like an engagement or so, in order to make a strong commitment with her, so " the playing games space " will be narrowed in such commitment. Remember you are younger than her and that's a BIG plus as most women fancy men younger than them :)
Good luck!
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