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female
age
36-40,
*lapure4
writes:Hello Cupid! I've been good friends with this guy for several months, and we talk/hangout pretty often. We have a lot in common (not to mention that we are from the same state), but deep down I have a crush on him. Even though we have this connection, I'm unsure about how he feels about me because he doesn't wear it on his sleeve nor has he outright told me that likes me. But he has been very subtle about it. For instance, if I plan on having lunch with another male friend, he'll label it as something more than just a friendly outing or become very overprotective if a guy approaches me. So, I'm lead to believe that he does like me, but I'm waiting for the first move. I don't want to get rejected or feel awkward if I decide to ask him: "Do you like me or not?" In the past, he has admitted that he's the one to ask women out on dates if he sees an interest, and is very persistent about getting the woman he wants. Thus far, he hasn't made any advances toward me so he can't possibly think of me as more than a friend, right? Please post your comments. Thanks!
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reader, getalittlebrighter  +, writes (26 October 2011):
well, it seems to me that while he may not show it all the time, there is a possibility he has feelings for you. Just because he hasn't asked you out or anything, it doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you. Maybe he's more scared than you think he is or maybe he's unsure about your feelings. I mean, you can be sending him mixed signs or something.
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