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*Angeliquex
writes:Hey guys! I have a bit of an issue concerning boys. I'll keep it short. Basically, I'm in my last year of college, and there's a guy, James*, who says he's in love with me. He told me this around two months ago, and we had a bit of a thing because I liked him too, but we kept it secret. Recently I realised I don't like him, so I told him I'm not after a relationship, which broke his heart. I told him it's because I have too much work going on, and I also used the excuse that my ex (Nicky*), who dumped me earlier this year, made me scared of relationships in college. But I told James I still like him, which is a lie! I don't know why I lied! So he thinks I still have feelings for him.Anyway, I saw my ex Nicky at a party a few days ago, and he told me he'd just been dumped by his current girlfriend. He told me he missed me and we ended up kissing.. Now he can't stop texting me, like old times. Nicky and James are really close friends.. But I have a feeling I like my ex again. I would like a relationship with him again, but that would completely contradict what I said to James, about not wanting a relationship right now! As well as the fact James thinks I still like him! What do I do?? I know I got myself in to a situation.. As always.I'll appreciate any advice I get. Angelique.
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (20 October 2008):
 i think you should just be straight with James, you are basicly messing with his feelings and 'stinging him along'.
If i was you i would say you like him as a friend but nothing more.
Its abit risky if your ex is friends with James however you can't really control who you have feelings for. If James takes it well then you might be ok try again with your ex, Nicky. However if he doesnt that will jus hurt his feelings more.
But in all its your choice no one can make your mind up for you, in your heart you know whats right.
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