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How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?

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Question - (13 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?

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A female reader, BeingAMariah United States +, writes (23 February 2013):

I will give you a list lol 3:) :

#1: Wear clothes that suggest you are in a mood for fun. Nothing too sultry because you will be in public but a tighter jeans or a shorter skirt or a more fitting top.

#2: If you are in a crowded place, bump into him accidentally. Make sure your breasts touch his body for less than a minute when doing that.

#3: When dancing, grind against him.

#4: While talking, touch him on the chest, thighs or ruffle his hair gently. Or put your hand on his neck but the key to this is being gentle and moving your fingers slowly.

#5: If you are getting drunk, look at him suggestively. Stare a little.

#6: Give him a typical top to bottom scan with your eyes and say something like, "Not bad" or "Yum". ;)

#7: This is something I did once and we were both so horny that we had to get it on in the elevator. While talking to someone else, casually reach for his arm and put it around your waist. Smile at him but continue talking. Without taking your hand of his arm, discreetly place his palm on your butt. Works well if you are wearing a skirt and his hand can slide in.

#9: Whisper into his ears. Make sure that your lips caress his earlobe while you whisper.

#10: Play footsie (oldie but a goodie).

#11: Flash him when no one is looking.

#12: Tell him that you forgot to wear underwear. Extra marks if you can look innocent while saying that.

#13:Talk suggestively. Example: Someone is horny here. I am. Are you too?

#14: Put your hand on his package when no one is looking and keep it there for a few seconds.

#15: Grab his butt when no one is looking. ;D

Hope I helped. :D

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A female reader, mccutepupz United States +, writes (13 January 2009):

I've been through your stage. I understand you!

What you do is you is in the movies or something, rubs his thighs. Go higher and higher and countinue teasing him.

When your alone with him like your room, sit on his lap and move around a bit. Not too much though. Move around till you feel a bump under you.

Wear short clothes but not sulty types. If you guys share a bed, take a shopping trip with your friends for some hot lingerie.

Also, slip a few 'dirty' words here and there in his ears. Purr a lot to look sexy!

If you are going clubbing, grind him senseless!

If you wanna go innocent sulty which my boyfriend likes, where thongs and push-up bras, a lot!

When you want to touch him, feather lightly touch his chest going up and down.

Also, when your in the bathroom and he;s close by the door, finger yourself until you moan. He will most deffinatly like it! Good Luck! ;D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

Thanks:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

If you want to make him horny but whilst being discreet, you can put your hand on his inner thigh and gently caress, playing around with the ear with your mouth can work too.

You could also whisper things in his ear when people aren't looking.

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A male reader, Horne United States +, writes (13 January 2009):

How? Oh come on. Use some imagination. Clothes are good things. If you have to take off clothes to get someone worked up, you're missing the most erotic organ in the body, which is the mind.

Plan a date. Simple one. Tell him dinner and movie. That's easy right? Wear a skirt, not a short, short one, but not one that drags the ground either. Find a little box that you can wrap like a present or a little box that is made for presents.

Now as to the planning. Write him a letter, a note maybe something. Tell him what you're going to do something he'll like after the date. Tell him there will be hints along the way. Get him asking. Let him know it's going to be sexual but no real details. Just get his mind there.

Take the panties you would have worn with that skirt and put them in the box. Wait until you get to dinner, order, then while you're waiting, put the box on the table in front of him and say you can open it and look inside, but you cannot touch or say anything. Make him promise. Tell him to just open the lid and look in.

So what? He'll see your panties. Now pass him the note that says you aren't wearing any because they're in the box. No touching in public. No flashing. Nothing that could expose others to your play, just him. Don't talk about it there. Just let him know what he has in front of him. When the waiter brings your food, before he digs in, pass him another note. By this time, he's going to be wondering what's in those notes. So make it good. Give him some options. Like... I'm not sure what I can post here lol. But give him a way of telling you without words which option he wants. Maybe pass him a pen and have him put a check beside it. Note these aren't sexual activities. These are... sigh, shoot me an email. I'll fill in the blanks if you need me to.

Bottom line though, arousal is easy to establish. Keeping it through the night isn't hard. Be careful though, wry smile, too much might end things quicker than you want them ended.

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