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How do I get his ex out of my head before it ruins our relationship??

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Question - (25 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2011)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi Cupid, Ive been going with my boyfriend for just over a month now and already we've fallen for each other and we're very happy.

However, I'm really struggling to get his ex out of my head!

I know im being silly, but I was going through his computer and he still has loads of pictures on it of them two together and on his phone too. Am i wrong for thinking that now he is with me, he should maybe get rid of them? I trust him a lot but i still feel a little insecure..

They went out for like 7 months and split up around august. So they have been split up for a while.

Also we were on his facebook and when he left the room, she popped up on facebook chat saying 'hello babe 3'. When i asked him about it he said they were still friends....I dont know, I found that weird.

Should i talk to him about it or am i just being silly?

thankss xx

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A female reader, adamantine Australia +, writes (26 May 2011):

adamantine agony auntI don't think you should be snooping around, especially so early into the relationship. Has he done anything to you apart from keep pictures and talk to his ex that should concern you?

It's not illegal to keep pictures of a previous loved one.. they probably remind him of good times and may be somewhat comforting. Do you still have pictures of your ex? Maybe not, but some people to, and to each their own.

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