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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: CAN YOU HELP ME??I loved a girl she also going to be 15. i loved her more then 5 years but when i told her after 4 years she told me that she had a boy friend so i left her but everytime she looks at me she kills my heart. because i think she want to talk to me soo i add her on facebook and she talked to me for 1 month and then when i asked her can i be her best firend she said no and she dont answer back but i see her every day but she looks at me in a bad way and gets her frieend and embrass me :( i also need like you :( CAN ANYONE HELP ME???
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 May 2011):
Sorry to hear that the girl you liked doesn't like you back in the same way. Unfortunately, that happens or has happened to most of us. It's very disappointing and can be upsetting, but there's just no way to make someone like you back in the same way.
I think your best tactic is to concentrate on your current friends and try making new ones as well. Maybe if you don't direct all this intense desire you feel at this girl, she'll have a chance to rethink her decision. But right now, she has told you pretty clearly that she doesn't want to be your friend in that way.
Maybe you can talk to your parents, or your brothers or sisters, if you have any, about this. I bet they've been through something like this and will have some good advice for you too.
Good luck.
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