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writes:I have been with a guy for nine months and i am i am jealous of his past reationships. He is really faithful and i have no reason to be jealous. But i feel inferior. His exes were all good looking and all. He has always told me that i am the only one he has ever loved but recently told me that he also loved another girl. Their relationship lasted two months... The relationship with that girl was the longest he ever had, after ours. He told me he loved her. That hurt me very much, I now feel betrayed, and although he confessed he was seeing her as a friend i cannot believe him. I mean, how can you have sex with someone that you see as a friend?! She is really, really beautiful and I compare myself with her. I think of her with my bf and it hurts too much! I love him and have never loved another guy this way before... I was never jealous in other relationships because i didn't love the guys i was with. He says he loves me too and has prooved it. But still, I am extremely jealous. What can I do? Do you think he is lying to me? Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): I am a bit older than you, and I have been in this situation, it is hard to accept that someone you care about a lot, has had very strong feelings for other girls, especially if they are still in the picture. If he really loves you, then he won't have slept with his ex while you have been together. Dealing with jealousy is difficult, but if you don't deal with it, either on your own or by talking to him, it will eat away at you and potentially ruin the relationship. But, if it does end, it won't be the end of the world, you're still young, and boys improve with age :)
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