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writes: i really want to have sex! i am a virgin and i feel like im going to stay like this forever. the guys who do want sex with me dont want a relationship. how do i find a genuine guy looking for sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (21 January 2006):
 The key is to go into the relationship NOT looking for sex. If you enter the relationship mainly looking for sex, the guy will sense this and use you for just that...sex! But if you enter the relationship looking for other things (such as companionship), sex will follow when you are both ready for it. You'll have a guy who will appreciate you and care for you, who you can also have sex with, but it won't be just about sex!
Your virginity is special. Don't rush into something that you'll regret later. You'll have plenty of opportunities in your lifetime. Trust me. Every guy wants sex. Your task is to find one who wants sex AND love AND commitment.
Best of luck!
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reader, omgaya +, writes (21 January 2006):
dear sister,
belive me i know how u feel. i am a 35year old male and i have had sex only 5 times in my whole life. the reason is that i have a bipolar disorder and my parents are very strict and smother me.
to find a genuine guy look around. be alert. imagine u are on a hunt...then go for the kill.
sex dear sister is something special ...treat it respect. dont go after it - u will never get it. let it come after u
then frig till u are blue in the face. that is the best alternative to sex...use a sex toy.
i hope u get a crack guy soon,
yours,
omgaya
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