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He's still sleeping with me *and* the girl he left me for. He says he's just confused...

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Question - (20 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am 25 and my ex, who just recently broke up with me, is 20. We were together for 2 years and we have a 16 month old baby together. He is now living with the other girl him and I have never stopped sleeping together and till this day still are he says he is confused and he does not know if he wants to come back home. I just do not know what to do. I feel like I am being used or is he really confused?

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A female reader, HeatherTHoward +, writes (22 January 2006):

You are definitely being used-he has it both ways: no commitment with you & the baby but the opportunity to sleep with two women.He may be doing it to make sure he gets to see his kid too (make sure he knows that the two of you are independent-i.e. seeing the kid isn't reliant on you two being close) or most probably just to get the best of both worls - being single & carefree but still being able to enjoy you.

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A female reader, HeatherTHoward +, writes (22 January 2006):

You are definitely being used-he has it both ways: no commitment with you & the baby but the opportunity to sleep with two women.He may be doing it to make sure he gets to see his kid too (make sure he knows that the two of you are independent-i.e. seeing the kid isn't reliant on you two being close) or most probably just to get the best of both worls - being single & carefree but still being able to enjoy you.

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A female reader, jolene +, writes (21 January 2006):

jolene agony auntyou are being used ... wheter or not he is confused!... he is getting both of you and not being made to deal with it! AND i doubt this will change unless one of you girls puts your foot down!

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